Sunday, 24 January 2016

Day 2 (If you have to let go, let go)

"it seems like these days, goodbye never really means goodbye. People think that they can just walk in and out of your life whenever they want. Or they can use up all your time and energy at your expense without giving you commitment in return. You deserve better than that,  I wish you never ever had to feel conflicted about whether you should be with someone or whether you are getting what you deserve out of a relationship. And I kinda wish, that you had two options in a relationship, you either leave, or.. you stay"

Have you ever been in those situations when you know that the relationship can’t keep going anymore, but you stick to it cause, you love that person too much like to let go? And what happens when is over, and you deal with the pain and all the questions, just so you can move on, and suddenly that person comes back? Is like “don’t you know how long it took me to finally be over it?!”
I had one of those relationships when the only person that was on it, was me. And I think we all have felt like that, like we are the only ones trying to keep the relationship together. The other person does nothing but you know you have to do it, cause you don’t want to lose them. Let me tell you something important, if you are going through this, giving everything to someone who doesn’t give you anything in return, you HAVE TO LET GO. I know is hard, but you deserve better and you can't be chasing after someone your whole life, even if you love them and you know they love you back. Saying goodbye, even when is EXTREMELY necessary, is hurtful, and hard and makes us wish things could be different. But, they should value you more. So you have to let go, and you have to ask them to never come back, after they are gone.

Sometimes we wanna go, and we are waiting for that person to say "I want you to stay" but sometimes that never happens, and it’s not because you are not good enough, sometimes is just because we are humans and sometimes these things doesn't work out. So take your things and go, you'll be alright, I know you will. You may be thinking that you won't get over the pain, but you also thought these would last forever...

Girl go plays cupid, out.

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